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How to Start Having Sex Again

How to Start Having Sex Again


In a couple, its easy to get stuck in a position of not having much sex.Often we stop trying because of something that goes a bit wrong.Perhaps, there were some nasty arguments,or moments of impotence, or some kind of akwardness or discomfort.But whats worse is that failure in the past puts us off from ever really trying again.We become avoidant and shy around the whole topic,and then the situation gets really fraught, because a lack of physical contact quickly destroys trust and intimacy.Before we know it, were in real trouble.There is one really relable way to break the deadlock.A technique pioneered in the 1980s by those legendary american sex researchers Masters and Johnson.Its called: sensate focus, and this is how you do it:

STAGE ONE Firstly, stop all attempts to have sex.The idea is that what is stopping good sex is fear,and therefore you have to reduce any tension and expectationsby rewinding sexual intimacy to its very beginnings.

STAGE TWO So, one night focus wholeheartedly just on one thing: kissing.You can be as passionate as you like, but there should be nothing more.You can press against each other, but there is no nakedness allowed.Its like being back at school, making out, with all the accumulated excitement.Oddly enough, not being allowed to have sex is pretty erotic.

STAGE THREE Then, on another night, you can go a bit beyond kissing, but not a whole lot more.Its like being back on an early date.You can touch bodies, but not genitals or breasts, thats for the next time.

STAGE FOUR By which occasion youll probably be getting pretty excited.Again, you can do lots of heavy petting and making out,but this time you could also go further and pleasure, and bring each other off, but, no more.

STAGE FIVE Thats for the fifth stage of the sensate method, when at last youre allowed penetration.But again, with a bow to adolescence sex, only for a moment, and with no expectation of orgasm.You do that on a couple more evenings,

STAGE SIX and then, hopefully, you can go all the way and you should be back to normal sex.Though, at the slightest hint of difficulties, just take it back a stage.Its ultimately a sign of how much we care about one another in relationships that sex can get so tricky.The key is not to allow expectations to ruin things.In this area of life, like pretty much every other,its extremely normal to think oneself abnormalfor things that are, in fact, poignantly common, just rarely discussed.Thats one of the main functions of art,to show us what other people are going through and leave us feeling a little less bereft and freakish.

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